Why Some Women Become Arrogant to Their Husbands
Why do some women become arrogant to their husbands months into their marriage?
Inasmuch as there are a plethora of reasons for this, there is one reason that stands out… and that’s what I want to talk about.
Now, imagine a sales man got you to buy a product after enticing promises and hypes but unfortunately, the product doesn’t meet up the expectations? I guess you’ll feel disappointed right?
This is what happens in some marriage-bound relationships.
The bobo who’s head is spinning 360 degrees in love with a girl goes ahead to ‘chyke’ her, promising her the whole earth plus 3 plots in heaven.
He is the Harlequin novel’s definition of romance – text, calls, gifts and all. He finally gets her. Even in the relationship, his head is still spinning 360 degrees but this time, at the speed of light. He tells her that he would take her to the moon with jars of honey to make it a literal honeymoon.
That he would build a statue of her at the headquarters of his business empire that he will kiss every intermittent hour. He will buy her a private chopper that will commute her to Dubai for shopping trips.
They get married… Years into the marriage, bobo still works at a company where he earns 100k… no “moon honey” and no Dubai shopping chopper. Stress of work overcomes him and drains all elements of romance in the relationship.
Why will sisi not be disappointed and display a little arrogance?
This message goes to my fellow brothers in the struggle. I know how much you want to impress that chic. I am not doubtful of your love for her or of your good intentions.
Though empty promises might pay on a short term, being realistic pays on the long run. In your ‘sales pitch’ don’t overstate your value. It will definitely bring disappointment. Try to maintain the fervor in which you used in getting her to like you after you are married. Do not stop being romantic for heaven’s sake
Guest post by Chibueze Onyendi
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